Things aren't always as they seem. Seriously when was the last time you read a book that turned out to be just "exactly as you expected it would be" - by looking at its cover?
AND IF THAT WERE THE CASE
Every time we read books - WHY BOTHER?
How boring would that be?
Moral?
Take time to know people. Don't place the burden on "them" to divulge everything about who they are.
That being said lets not jump to conclusions (and judge) each other until we really do know each other.
Okay off my soap box - for now anyway .......;)